The Art of Speaking Skills

Talking is a normal human life activities is very important, because by talking we can communicate between fellow human beings, express opinions, convey the intent and message, express their feelings in all emotional conditions and so forth. If observed in everyday life, many found the person speaking. But not everyone in the talk that has the ability to deliver content both in its message to other people so it can be understood according to his wishes, in other words, not everyone has a good ability to align or adjust in precise detail between what you have in mind or her feelings with what she was saying so that others who hear it can have a sense and an understanding that fits with the wishes of the speaker. For the delivery of simple things that may not be a problem, but to convey an idea / ideas, opinions, explanations to a problem, or describe a central theme, usually has a fairly high level of difficulty for a speaker who is not used, not even everyone is able to do it well. It takes a skill or competence to practice the process sufficiently to be able to perform well becomes a powerful speaker. Basically speaking skills should be possessed by all persons in need of communication activities, both in nature one-way or reciprocal or both. A person who has talked a good ketermapilan, will have the ease in relationships, whether at home, at work, or elsewhere. With his skills all the messages it conveys will be easily digested, so that communication can run smoothly with anyone. 

The Importance of Active Listening

The success of an organization or company, is determined by its leaders. Central circle of leadership is communication. Communication is an art or a way to communicate something, so that others understand us. "Communication is the most important skill in life. We spend most of our waking hours communicating "Stephen R. Covey. Subordinates in solving problems, we tend to rush in, to fix everything with good advice. But often we have failed, especially the failure to take the time to diagnose the problem to really understand in depth the problem first. We usually try to first intelligibility. Most people do not listen with the intent to horrible but they hear to answer. They are getting ready to speak, filtering everything through their own paradigms, reading their autobiography into other people's lives. To try to understand first, we need a paradigm shift that is not easy. We have been taught since childhood to speak, write and read. We are not taught, how good to hear it. Heard there are several levels, ranging from not trying to hear, pretending to listen, to hear only the parts that we like it, attentive listening and active listening Active Listening is the central point of communication. 

The Importance of Regeneration in Organization

Like a campfire, when the wood used to keep the fire burning is over the campfire padamlah it. if an organization is described as campfire wood is a cadre of an organization.

To build a strong cadre of competent and specific field required a process known as the cadre.
Because the true regeneration aims to foster excellence that will be devoted cadre in the organization.
In the process of regeneration has always emphasized a sense of belonging and attachment among fellow comrade. So that will grow the value of solidarity and trust that must be possessed by every individual.

Among the Awards, Sincerity, and Character in life

A young man graduated from a top university with academic ability
a very extraordinary being to apply a job in a
PMA bona fide reputable company that has always coveted by many
university graduates for a career in the company. Youth
are applying for managerial positions who are offered by
company.

He managed through the various stages of the test smoothly.
And it's time for final testing stages of the interview
Board of Directors. This stage becomes very important as a benchmark
someone hired or not.

Director of the company found that many young CV
kinds of academic achievements and awards are very unusual, starting
from high school until his postdoctoral research, not
've missed setahunpun for this young man to achieve a score
highest academic and academic achievement are proud of.

Director of the company began to ask, "Have you ever
get a scholarship for your school / college? ", the young man
replied, "No. ..".

Director then went on the question, "Is that your dad
pay the entire cost of education from the beginning of school until you
finally passed as it is today? "
The youth replied, "My father died when my age
still not even a year, which pays the entire cost of my education

is my mother. "

Director said, "Your mother works where ...?"
"My mother worked as an itinerant clothes washer ..", replied the youth.

Finally, the Director asked the young man to show his hand
on the Director.
The young man showed his palm that looks very
seamless and smooth and flawless and the slightest stain.

Director again asked, "Did you help your mother wash
clothing before ...?"
The young man replied, "Never, my mother always told me to focus
learn and read many books, and also because my mother could
washing faster than me. "

Director and even then said, "I have one request. After
you go back after this interview, go and wash hands
your mother, then meet with me tomorrow in this place. "

For the youth of Indonesia in the spirit of aging

The figure is identical with the idealism of youth, burning passion, and creativity. As well as the most prominent characteristic is a young soul. Most people refer to youth as a new generation who will bring change. But that view is not always true. Today's reality and the facts actually show that not all youth can serve as a figure of hope that will bring change.